Leadership and Receptivity: A Torah Foundation for Shalom Bayit Shalom Bayit is not built only on communication skills or shared values. Judaism teaches that peace in the home depends on clear roles, grounded leadership, and willing trust — emotionally, materially, and physically. In Torah language, this structure is called mashpia and mekabel — one who … Continue reading Man and Woman: How to Live and Love
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The Hidden Abuse No One Talks About
I don’t have any bruises or scars, so you’d never know. What actually constitutes emotional or financial abuse can be so subtle. For nearly three decades, I’ve lived in a nearly constant state of confusion, moving between being triggered by emotional abandonment and wondering if I was the one who was crazy. Maybe at times … Continue reading The Hidden Abuse No One Talks About
When Silence Becomes Abuse: Navigating Emotional Stonewalling
The Hidden Pain of Emotional Neglect and Its Toll on Women Abuse isn’t always loud. Sometimes, it’s wrapped in silence—stonewalling, denial, and emotional distance that can leave a woman feeling invisible, unloved, and unsafe. This has been my reality in a relationship that mirrors the same wounds I experienced growing up. I internalized the anger … Continue reading When Silence Becomes Abuse: Navigating Emotional Stonewalling
Choosing Love and Freedom: Honoring Myself in the Journey Forward
"Today I am set free from unhealthy situations. I acknowledge the courage it takes to break free and trust that I will find a life of peace and authenticity."Daily Reflection – January 4, from Daily Affirmations for Adult Children of Alcoholics by Raquel Lerner For most of my life, I’ve been working to free myself … Continue reading Choosing Love and Freedom: Honoring Myself in the Journey Forward
Navigating Loneliness: A Journey of Growth and Healing
By Mindy Rubenstein At 47, reflecting on 26 years of marriage reveals a complex tapestry of experiences—many of which are tinged with a profound sense of loneliness. As we navigate our challenges, I find myself grappling with grief over a lifetime spent in emotional solitude. Understanding the Loneliness Living alongside someone for so many years … Continue reading Navigating Loneliness: A Journey of Growth and Healing