By Mindy Rubenstein
Creating Spaces That Nurture Body, Mind, and Spirit
For much of my life, my need to rearrange furniture and declutter felt overwhelming—a constant urge to shift and perfect every detail in my surroundings.
But what I once saw as a personal struggle has become a strength that I am starting to use to help others create peace in their homes and lives.
When I walk into a room, I can physically feel if something is off—whether it’s misplaced furniture, clutter, or an imbalance in the layout. It’s as if my body senses the disharmony and calls for a reset.
What used to feel like an exhausting compulsion has become a gift: the ability to guide others toward clarity, peace, and renewal in their own spaces.
Finding Peace in Our Spaces and Ourselves
Judaism reminds us that creating intentional spaces brings peace to our lives. When God commanded the construction of the Mishkan, every element was placed with care and purpose:
“Make for Me a sanctuary, and I will dwell among them” (Exodus 25:8).
Just as the Mishkan was designed to be a space for holiness, our homes thrive when we clear clutter and thoughtfully arrange them to promote peace and shalom bayit.
Turning my OCD-driven tendencies into something positive required compassion and self-love. I’ve learned that:
“What we perceive as struggles can often be transformed into strengths when channeled with intention.”
Instead of fighting my need for order, I am embracing it as a tool to help others refresh their homes and lives.
Practical Tips for Creating Shalom Bayit
- Declutter with Compassion: Let go of items that no longer serve a purpose, allowing space for clarity and joy.
- Rearrange to Renew: Shift furniture to create better flow and openness in your space.
- Incorporate Nature: Plants and natural materials bring balance and life into your home.
- Set Intentions: Approach your space with mindfulness, reflecting on how it supports peace and connection for your family.
From florida to Northern Israel: A Journey of Transformation
Moving from Miami to northern Israel reshaped my understanding of space and harmony. In this land filled with spiritual energy, I am turning my sensitivity into a creative service, helping others find peace in their environments.
Book a Consultation
Ready to transform your space and bring shalom bayit into your home?
To celebrate getting started, I’m offering free consultations this month.
Let’s create a peaceful, refreshed space together.
Message me to book your appointment.
May your home be filled with peace, clarity, and renewed energy.
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